Students and online dating
“Here at Harvard I have had no experience offline dating,” says Linda Trujano ’15.Despite the wind and chill of a brutal winter day, Trujano radiates an easygoing warmth, with her wavy, highlighted hair perfectly coiffed, cheeks bright pink from the cold.According to The Crimson’s senior survey of the Class of 2012, 48.6 percent of women and 49.4 percent of men reported having dated zero to one person at Harvard.The lack of dating at Harvard may not only be a function of time constraints, but also one of space constraints.On Campus: Dating, Hook-Ups, and Frustrations In addition to this stasis that Eastwick mentions, some posit that Harvard students especially tend not to prioritize dating.“It’s hard to actually meet people, especially in a community like Harvard, where everyone is so busy and no one stops to get to know each other,” says Jake, a gay freshman from California who has used Ok Cupid.Trujano is one of an increasing number of college students who use online dating tools to enhance their sexual and romantic relationships.
A Stigmatized Practice Although the use of online dating tools is on the rise, there is still a significant social stigma attached to its use that prevents a meaningful dialogue on campus.
“Online dating was basically dominated by geeks,” says Sam A. Yagan, founder and CEO of Ok Cupid, and now the CEO of Match.com, was an applied math concentrator at Harvard.
He continues, “Think about it: The only people on the Internet in 1993 were geeks....
Bensing ’14, treasurer of the Harvard Computer Society, which oversees the ubiquitous Valentine’s Day matching program Datamatch.
Some believe that “hookups,” on the other hand, are far more common on Harvard’s campus.