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Would you be willing to go in for testing again before we get more involved? You will get an idea of if they are religious or not. If they say that ask for the happiest moment of life before that. Don’t let them get away with just saying meeting you. This will let you see if they have been dating for a long period of time and if they have really decided on what they want out of a relationship or not. This could be slightly revealing, do they want you all to themselves in a possessive way or would they be happy sharing you with family and friends. This is also a good one, we all deal with stress differently, some exercise, some meditate, some hold it inside until they erupt. What is your favorite way of spending time with me? If they admit they would drive buzzed, you don’t want to ride with them. Camping with family, summer camp, swimming at the Y tells you a little a bit about the way they grew up. Drugs, alcohol, gambling, and well you get the idea. What do you consider the five biggest strengths of your personality? You shouldn’t drink and drive so the next question is will you do it again? If you have been on a date or two and they start talking marriage, that is fast and you may wish to slow that down. What did you do during the summers when you were growing up? This will tell you if they see everything as a competition they need to win 51. This tells you if they prefer lots of people or alone time with you. Some people do some people don’t until they actually meet theirs. Even if they say they never had sex, there are other ways of contracting some of these diseases. This will tell you what kind of relationship he or she has with their family. This is an important one, if they are not willing to get tested, you may want to rethink getting more involved. A good way to find out if they believe in only what they can confirm with their senses (touch, vision, hear, taste, and smell). This may give you a sense of things they like to do, hiking, historical tours, beaches, fishing, scuba diving etc. What’s something everyone else loves that you secretly find overrated? Just as an example, cheeseburgers because they are vegan or social media because it’s a waste of time.
Do they have a passion for reading, or was it in high school? How much time do you spend on social networking in a week? This allows you to glimpse into their personal preferences, there is no right or wrong answer here unless you have tattoos or body piercings that they cannot accept about you. This one can tell you a couple of things, first do they fall in and out of love easily and second are they afraid of commitment. This will tell you how they handle anger, stress, and what they use as a way to resolve it. A glimpse of how they see themselves in life and what they wish to achieve. If you found a briefcase of money on the street, would you keep it? You should be able to tell if they are extremely prideful or maybe they lack belief in their own worth. What’s the length of your longest romantic relationship? While being impulsive can be fun, it can also lead to disastrous financial problems if they are too impulsive when making purchases. Have you ever hit the person you have been involved with? This can tell you what they take seriously and don’t take seriously. This will tell you if they are willing to try marriage counseling and couples therapy to save their marriage first or go straight for divorce. This can tell you just how resourceful they are and if they give up easily. This is a question you need to talk about before marriage and an important one. This is going to allow you to know how important their family is to them. This can show you how they treat their friends and people that they care about. Think of the song “Live like you were dying” if you don’t know the song, look up the lyrics, it’s actually quite meaningful. What would you do if you were stranded on an island and there was nothing to eat? Call it Karma or the golden rule, the question is do they believe that you reap what you sew? Are they actively looking for love or is it a situation where life is good where I am right now but if love were to come along, I’m ready for it type thing. Things involving family and very close friends, effect people differently and leave certain issues with them emotionally, mentally, and on their soul. If we were to have kids what faith would you wish them to be raised in yours or mine (if you come from different faiths)?