“Evolution made it so that women are sexually fluid.That’s because we used to live in harems, where women got used to being affectionate with one another.But normally, to be honest, I kept his sexuality hidden. And when I think about all the messages I received about bisexual men and women who date them, it’s easy to see where this fear came from.There was the friend who said she wouldn’t date someone bisexual because he would cheat with a man.Some members of the LGBTQ community, including some polysexual people, choose to identify as queer rather than picking a specific label.This may be because they feel it offers them more sexual fluidity than choosing another label. Some LGBTQ people however reject the word queer as either an umbrella term for the community or a personal identifier.
The reason I identify as bisexual and not pansexual is while I am attracted to all genders, gender does play a factor in my attraction.
But men are attracted to one gender or the other.”“They don’t really exist.
Men didn’t evolve that way because they’re the sexual initiators. I mean, the ones who say they’re bisexual usually just prefer women emotionally.” When a classmate tried to convince me that people like my boyfriend did not exist, I proclaimed his sexual orientation unabashedly because I was angry and wanted her to know that bisexual men are in fact real.
So what should you as a monosexual person do with this information? I hope your takeaway from this essay is that identity is individual.
Many of these terms hold different definitions for different people.
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One myth I often hear about bisexuality is that it enforces the gender binary. Not only are there many bisexual people who are attracted to nonbinary folks, many nonbinary people themselves identify as bisexual.