Guy im dating made tentative plans
You do not send a 'thank-you' follow-up text.
What you want to see after the first date is if he really likes you too.
In other words, it's his most honest moment, and the time for you to ask questions and take the answers at face value *Curveball #1: The guy who texts you nonstop, way too soon.*It's good if a guy isn't afraid to get in touch, but if he launches into constant contact before you've even been on a date, it's a bad sign.
He'll be stepping up his romantic gestures: If you met at a bar on the first date, what I want to see is that he's taking you out to dinner or planning something more extravagant for the second or third date.
A man who's really trying to date you in a respectful way won't hook up with you on a second or third date.
It's not always easy to tell the difference between a guy who's wants a relationship with you and one who's wrapped up in the moment. Lust is a powerful thing, and some men will do just about anything in the sweet spot between "nice to meet you" and "sex." Closing the gap between point A and B can be a goal some men pursue with the same vigor as Roger Federer practicing for, playing in, and attempting to win Wimbledon, for example.
They may get carried away and act like you're the be-all and end-all, only to lose interest or show their true colors as soon as you sleep together.