Dating two men
I have been single for three years and I’m just stepping out into the dating world after a 13-year marriage that ended in a divorce.I have met guys who were a letdown but finally came across a really nice and respectful guy. Yes, it’s absolutely OK to date more than one guy at once. You are deciding who to take into your firm in a partnership position, and you better be selective.Am I ever worried that the two guys will find out about each other?
I like that the two men are opposites and I got on so well with both of them. My second dates were both fantastic and that’s when I realised I needed to make a decision if there was going to be a third date – which man did I want to spend most of my time with?Everyone Is Doing It This is less of a rule and more of a fact to keep in mind: That guy you're on your first date with is on his fourth first date this month, and so are you.My friend P (and no, her real name is not just a letter but if you're friends with P, then you're friends with me) put it best.I know it sounds like a great problem to have but the big issue for me was that I really liked both of them equally.The other amazing thing is that they’re both very into me – something I hadn’t experienced in five years!